Female Orgasm
The purpose of this blog is to discuss my quest for the BIG “O”
What makes the female orgasm so hard to achieve at a young age? I find it rather interesting that my older sister can have multiple orgasms, with multiple sex partners, very easily. Yet, it is a struggle for me to please myself even once. Most of my masturbating attempts end up dry, and when I’m with my boyfriend, well, let’s not go there as it is rather depressing. He keeps saying, “well, if you guide me… then I will hit the spot.” The last thing I want to do is be a tour guide during sex when I try to close my eyes and concentrate on the sensation that is there for one second and gone the next. Please post some comments and suggestions.
Thanks,
Candy
August 10th, 2007 at 6:25 pm
hey Candy, my only advice for you would be to find a decent alone time (at least an hour) where you can relax and not worry about being disturbed. Then just think sexy thoughts and do what feels good. Hopefully if you do it long enough the big O will come… so to speak
August 15th, 2007 at 2:19 pm
I too had the same problems! My boyfriends thought I was defective, it sure as hell wasn’t me though! Have you heard of a rabbit? Do yourself a favour —- BUY ONE! Also, you can buy gel to sensitize yourself… I hope ‘m not being rude, or intrusive - I just wish someone had given me this information - would have saved me years of grief and lost fun/pleasure!
T
August 18th, 2007 at 12:53 pm
Hey Candy- I’m sure all will be fine with you- Just relax and it will come to you…so to speak. Your boyfriend is just young and inexperienced and you need to talk to him- Good luck on your quest.
October 10th, 2008 at 1:21 pm
Candy, this looked to be a very interesting blog. However you have not posted anything for quite some time.
Your willingness to share your experiences to developed your orgasm would be helpful to many young women I think. I applaud your efforts. You even went so far as to register a domain name.
But you need to keep making entries. You got off to a good start but then nothing more. I hope you are well and nothing serious is the cause of your failure to blog more often.
Sincerely David Christian Solomon
January 29th, 2009 at 6:17 pm
Hi Candy,
Lay in the bathtub with your hips under the running water. Let the warm water run over your clit and think about your most obscene fantasy. Believe me you will have an orgasm. You’ll be in there all night. I had my first when I was 8.
Have fun…